Many (not all) girls need it every once in awhile. An occasional session over a strict, but caring, man's lap can do more than any amount of talk and counseling.
In our home the roles are reversed, my wife is bigger, stronger and more dominate than I. She usually strips me (so I don't try running outside to get away from her), and spanks me over her knee on the living room couch as well. I too squirm, kick, beg & promise, anything to try & make it stop even though I'm 62.